If your family have never left Devon, if you have access
to all the relevant records, if you have the energy to do the research
and a few oral memories from older members of your family - if
this is your scenario, then creating your family history for generation
after generation is straightforward and just a matter of having the time
to do it.
The story of the research into the Leleux family, into which Jessie
Stentiford married, illustrates quite another set of circumstances. John
Humphrey and Bruce Humphrey are brothers who live and work on opposite
sides of the world. Working independently, they, and other members of
this family, have devoted years to the task but even now, with all the
resources available to 21st century family historians, cannot discover
key facts about people who lived and died in the last 100
years, let alone further back in time.
So how can this happen? Inhabitants of the British Isles are
surrounded by myriads of vast archives of diverse records covering
anything from 15th century laundry lists to 20th century hospital
records - surely there will be a clue somewhere? And yes, in the UK
there's a good chance there will be. But once an ancestor leaves these
shores, it can be very different. There may have been no intention to
hide one's identity - it's simply that record-keeping varies so much
across the world.
But
some people did want to hide their true identity. Divorce was so difficult until fairly recent times that desertion was
more common than we might suppose. Precisely because UK records were
so thorough, many thought it better to go abroad to avoid being traced
and, at the same time, to change surnames. One of the problems faced by
the Leleux descendents is a Catholic marriage just a few generations
back. Officially, that was for life for both parties - unofficially, the
couple themselves may have had to make the best of quite a different
outcome.
And we come now to the question of
fabrication. In the tight little world of
a Devon village, watched over by an eagle-eyed vicar who missed nothing,
subterfuge was impossible. In a large city like London, the situation
was completely different - who was to contradict anything you
chose to say? Civil Registration did not become compulsory until the mid
-1870s and many years passed after this time without enforcement of the
law.
The story of how John and Bruce have gone about
trying to solve the Leleux
puzzle will touch a chord in the heart of all family historians. Their
search has led them all over the globe; they've used records, the
resources of the internet, historical knowledge, commonsense,
intelligence and interaction with others making the same search - and
they've still only scratched the surface! In the end, they will unravel
their mysteries because of their intuitive approach, trying to think like their ancestors and ask
"What would I have done in those circumstances?". We should
all trust our instincts when we're researching the history of our
families - after all, they're in our genes!